I was talking to a real close friend of mine! We were discussing when a man really loves a woman he requires of her something from her. As we well discovered if he doesn't know how to properly receive or ask they tend to act out in a way that damages their own relationship with her.
What I am talking about is the woman's heart. Ask yourself did he require it or did you automatically grant him you're heart?
This was my question: How can you become one flesh when you're hearts don't beat as one? What am I saying? The songwriter was onto something with the words to a song was "if you're heart wasn't in it ....." the meaning is quite clear. We were talking about from engagement to marriage.
